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relationship advice This isn't a rant, it's sincere advice. Please, take it for what it's worth.
I myself have noticed, and many of my friends have too, that girls often are quite nice initially - even coming on pretty strong - and then almost instantly become cold. To me, this means "back off", and so that's what I do. And if that's what it actually means, then there's no problem. But I've talked to some girls about this sort of behavior, as well as a psychiatrist who counsels a lot of young-ish women and specializes in relationship issues, and it seems that this is actually somewhat of a deliberate strategy on the part of many girls. They want to be pursued, and they want to see how much a guy likes them, how much discouragement he's willing to go through in order to "win" the girl he likes. It's like cats, kind of - you pet one, and it walks away, and you figure it doesn't want to be petted any more, and then you see it rubbing itself against the edge of the wall, and you think "well why the ^#$% did it walk away?". I think these girls don't realize that there's no way for a guy to know whether sudden coldness from a girl who had been so nice to him the previous time he saw her is just coyness or is a clear warning to stay away. And many guys - I'd say the best ones, in fact - would rather err on the side of caution, and assume the girl now hates him, than risk continuing to pursue someone who seriously doesn't want that. Not only would he look like a creep, and get a reputation (nothing happens in a vacuum), he could make that girl he cares about very uncomfortable. Again, this has happened to me many, many times. Girl starts up a conversation, or responds very warmly to one begun by me, it goes really well...and then they next time I see her, you'd think we'd never met.
So I guess the moral could be please just don't play games? Or even when it's not a game, even when the girl was in a good mood the first time we spoke and then the next time was in an awful mood and her coldness actually had little to do with me at all - maybe she shouldn't wonder if the third time we're around each other, I just avoid and ignore her altogether? I know mood swings can be violent, but please understand that no guy knows you're having a bad day unless you tell him. Maybe wear a sign?
Sorry if it seems this ended up turning into a rant after all. But maybe you'll be more understanding from now on when guys get frustrated and just decide you're all crazy and we should just be scumbags after all.
Good luck, all of you.

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